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    sashasteedly Doing 5 cheers 2017-06-10 12:15:25

    So I chatted for a half an hour with the clerk at Turkey Hill. Almost made me late for work. It was so great to talk to someone my age. What about a bit of this and that. It just felt good to he social. To have a human other than hubby CARE about what I say. Shoot it gave me a tiny glimmer of hope.....sigh

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    sashasteedly Doing 6 cheers 2017-06-09 13:15:13

    Ok this hard. I used to make new friend so easily. Some true seismic shifts in life caused a lot of old friendships to die. Then I moved 3 hours away. I am a non-driver. I have NOTHING in common with anyone here so far. I have been here two years!

    Afraid of being hurt again. Despite having a great hubby I AM LONELY really lonely.
    So trying something TOTALLY new and reach out to positive people.

    This site seems perfect.

    Sooooo hello hello! So nice to meet you.

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    • oyeathatgirl
      oyeathatgirl 1 cheers 2017-06-09 16:36:47

      @sashasteedly In a way, it's a little bit comforting to me to hear that even though you have a husband, you're totally lonely (I'm sorry you're lonely though and don't wish it on you!) because sometimes I feel like if I had a husband/boyfriend/person in my life I wouldn't be so lonely. I moved to a new town a year ago and totally thought I'd be in a different place socially than I am now. I totally relate to your situation!

      I work nights, don't drink or sleep around or go clubbing (which seems to be all that the people my age do). I was making progress I felt like, but now I just feel stuck.

      There is something super comforting about considering and making steps toward goals and turning your attention to tasks that interest you during a time like this, so I'm totally embracing this site for now, it's fun!

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      • oladapo
        oladapo Doing 1 cheers 2017-06-11 22:22:00

        @oyeathatgirl It's a nice suggestion but I'll implore you to have someone to talk to, someone U can share Ur heart with, someone that can relief Ur heart from heavy thoughts...you know problem shared is half solved and besidesdomeone might develop mental sickness like depression which is more dangerous. Am talking from experience. Can we be friends?

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    sashasteedly Doing 2 cheers 2017-06-09 12:34:48


    1. Wonderful evening with hubby. All these years and not only do I love him I like him

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    sashasteedly Doing 3 cheers 2017-06-08 12:51:33

    The sunshine, my husbands good mood, my sweet kitties,my job and the strength to keep on keeping on.

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    sashasteedly Doing 2 cheers 2017-06-07 12:28:44

    I am 44 years old. I AM very grateful for many things. Recently, however, with life being a bit tougher than usual I have lost myself in only surving as I say hand over bloody hand. My life has been the stuff of a bad Spanish telanovella since I was a child. I have lost the joy in the small stuff that I always had. It is what sustained me. I miss being me a true survivor that savors life for all it blesses us with!

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Be happy! 145 people are doing this
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    sashasteedly Doing 12 cheers 2017-06-09 12:43:50

    Today I choose to allow myself to be happy for small things. I am worth it. I would want a friend like me. Being lonely does not mean I cannot find joy and happiness on this journey of life!

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    sashasteedly Doing 7 cheers 2017-06-08 12:58:17

    I am striving to keep in mind happiness is not a destination but a journey. I refuse to be angry at myself because I am not. I believe I can he happy even for a moment today. In that celebration perhaps I can be happy twice tomorrow

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Get crafty! 1 person is doing this
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    sashasteedly Doing 2 cheers 2017-06-09 12:48:41

    I actually bought a small thing for myself that I wanted not needed. I feel no guilt. Taking care of others (by profession) at work and at home means not only do I deserve to rest but I need it to renew myself. Yeah!

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  • sashasteedly
    sashasteedly Doing 0 cheers 2017-06-08 13:04:51

    Yep! Took a 20 minute power nap. Felt great. Refuse to feel guilty. I AM HUMAN. What's next?

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  • sashasteedly
    sashasteedly Doing 0 cheers 2017-06-09 12:52:46

    Oh boy! A fail today and yesterday! Period. Resolved to start tomorrow despite a 5 am start time and no chance of a full nights sleep. Ugggg my kingdom for 8 hours of sleeeeeeep!

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    sashasteedly Doing 2 cheers 2017-06-09 12:55:28

    Well today I did the 2 instead of three cigarettes in the a.m. but I smoked so much yesterday. No excuse but it was high stress and they are my crutch.

    Started fresh this morning. No matter how long it takes I have to do this!!

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  • sashasteedly
    sashasteedly Doing 4 cheers 2017-06-08 12:55:05

    Skipped a cigarette this a.m. had two instead of my usual three by the time I get to work. I feel fine. Happy. In two days I am going to cut out one of the lunchtime ones.

    Here I go. Nothing else has worked. I need this to.

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