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Goal in focus Reclaim my joie de vivre. 1 person is doing this
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  • BeingBryn
    BeingBryn Doing 7 cheers 2017-10-15 13:37:10

    Thoughts about joy and 43T:

    I've deleted my "do x every day" and "do x every week" goals. I'm going to try to do them again for 2018! But honestly, because I've been so busy, they were just kind of stressing me out.

    I'm going to try to keep this goal in focus in the coming weeks...just as it's "in focus" here on my 43T list!

    And I'm going to try to make 43T my "landing page" for internet breaks, rather than FB or Twitter. I'm not in the habit yet of coming here regularly, and I'm changing that. FB and Twitter can often bring me down, whereas this is such a positive place!

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    • wordsncolor
      wordsncolor 3 cheers 2017-10-15 14:59:42

      @BeingBryn 110% with you there. When WordsNColor 1.0 some got deleted at first I was bummed, but upon remaking the account I decided to keep my 43T down to only what I was actively working on. A visible list of 'everything on the back burner was discouraging.

      I hardly ever use FB for that reason anymore. It's too depressing, and has a sluggish vibe about it.l makes my brain feel melt-y

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    • Andia
      Andia 2 cheers 2017-10-16 12:34:47

      @BeingBryn Most of Facebook are people reposting pictures or memes other people have creatively come up with or opinions on some subject rather than posting on their actual lives now anyway. I have been guilty of it too to some degree. I don’t want that. I want people posting on what they are doing with their lives, such as with here. to me that is inspirational.

      THis community was a happy answer. Also limiting my time, Instagram and Pinterest became my newest addiction, it hit me that I was watching others be creative and that was making me a fan and not an active player. I wanted to be on the field and not just sitting on the sidelines. πŸ™‚

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  • BeingBryn
    BeingBryn Doing 1 cheers 2017-09-14 03:22:43

    Last night we went to see U2 -- the Joshua Tree tour. I didn't realize until right before the show that they were going to play the whole Joshua Tree album straight through! It's maybe the best rock album of all time. Amazing!

    Their music has always meant so much to me, and it was my first time seeing them in concert! Tonight I took a long walk and listened to their 2014 album and a newer song by them. It got me so inspired about life and about my fiction writing project.

    How do you forget how much you love something? It does happen to me sometimes! But that's what this goal is all about...remembering what I love again and reclaiming my joy.

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  • BeingBryn
    BeingBryn Doing 4 cheers 2017-09-10 13:22:34

    Have you ever felt like you've lost yourself? Like, who you are?

    I've been working so hard this year, and I've had a lot of new responsibilities and worries...but the worries are really optional, right?

    I feel like I've lost the free-spirited, high-spirited person I was. And I want her back!

    I want to dance around my house and sing in the car.

    I want to smile at strangers and have fun with my friends and family.

    I want to see sunrises and sunsets and take long walks in the moonlight.

    I want to make out with Mr. Donovan and make him laugh.

    I just want to be me again!

    So far in 2017, I've had some great times, but I've mostly gotten bogged down and overwhelmed...and there's no way I'm letting that continue.

    I'm going to have a wonderful autumn and a beautiful Christmas, and finish the rest of the year right.

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    BeingBryn Doing 4 cheers 2017-08-19 13:50:54

    I've started on this one! I am going to make her a Japanese-inspired indigo and white quilt. (I'm pretty sure she's not on this site, so it's okay to discuss.) I'm making 4 embroidered sashiko squares to put in the corners, so that's what I'm working on first...

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  • BeingBryn
    BeingBryn Doing 4 cheers 2017-10-18 01:46:42

    Two important pieces of news:



    1. Our first book is up for sale.


    2. I need to treat myself better so I don't die 🙂


    Today Mr. D made me call my doctor about the heart palpitations I've been getting. I haven't really been thinking about them that much. After I got off the phone with the doc, I realized I'd accidentally lied. I said it lasts a few minutes -- it lasts about an hour, a few times a day. When he asked, I said I hadn't been drinking much coffee. I've been drinking massive amounts and I'm dehydrated. I've just barely been paying attention to what I'm doing to my own body.

    It's not normal to have a racing heartbeat for long periods of time every day, and it's not normal to barely be aware of it. I need to cut back on my hours and worrying now.

    The stupid thing is, I've worked like this before (at an agency), and I swore I'd never do it again!

    I'm going to stop working at 7 pm at night and not work on weekends, I'm going to drink water, and I'm going to get lots of sleep, and we'll see how that goes.

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  • BeingBryn
    BeingBryn Doing 1 cheers 2017-10-15 13:03:34

    This continues to be a challenge! Who knew that startups were hard, right? Hahaha.

    The great news is that I have a lot of support. I met with my boss in L.A. last week and I was really honest about how I was feeling. He could not have been any more helpful or understanding! It looks like I probably am going to get more help next year. He gave me a lot of good advice. He also said I should feel free to loop him in more when I run into snags, and that I could call him if I was really feeling low. Honestly, I knew I'd feel so much better after talking to him face to face, and I did.

    I was just talking to a new friend who's been involved in a couple of startups in India...she had such a bad experience with her last boss. So I know how lucky I am.

    Being in a different city from everyone I work with will always be a hindrance. My boss recommended that I pick up the phone more, which goes against my grain a little, haha, but of course he's totally right! Sometimes it's a lot better than email. Plus, that way even if there's some confusion or disagreement. people can hear in my voice that I have good intentions and I like them.

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  • BeingBryn
    BeingBryn Doing 4 cheers 2017-09-10 12:44:33

    Guys. This new venture.

    I've been feeling so demoralized. It's a lot of work, of course, and a lot of responsibility. I'm the only person working on it full time, and everyone else is in another city. In the past month or so, it's been a serious challenge to my happiness and mental health, and I can't let that continue.

    The workload is too heavy for one person. Even if I did nothing but sleep and work, I couldn't get it all done, and I'm not willing to give up a life outside of work.

    I've asked my boss for part-time help, and we'll see what he says tomorrow. Either way, I realize that I have to stay more balanced and not let worries about the business overwhelm me.

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    • garrin
      garrin 1 cheers 2017-09-10 13:24:44

      @BeingBryn I hear you. Hang in there. I'm going through something similar at the moment. Having trouble paying my taxes. Not bringing in enough cash. Entrepreneurship is not for the faint of heart, but you will reap the benefits of going your own way in time. I hope you stick with it!

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    • BeingBryn
      BeingBryn Doing 2 cheers 2017-09-10 13:35:10

      @garrin Oh, I appreciate that so much! And I'm sorry to hear you're having some struggles, too, but you're so right...entrepreneurship is tough, and we've got to hang in there!

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    • cia007
      cia007 0 cheers 2017-09-10 13:45:10

      @BeingBryn I have a job like that...work is never ending. Job security!

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  • BeingBryn
    BeingBryn Doing 1 cheers 2017-08-19 13:39:17

    This is a huge challenge. A couple of my product release dates have been pushed back because they aren't going to be ready yet. I try to keep a positive attitude even when I run into setbacks. There are a lot of exciting things happening, too. 🙂

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    • Andia
      Andia 2 cheers 2017-08-19 14:00:50

      @BeingBryn this is exciting!! There was a study done of people who put in massive amount of hours for another company, while they liked their job it was not the level of satisfaction as someone who put in the same hours for their own business. How absolutely lovely you went for this!

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  • BeingBryn
    BeingBryn Doing 5 cheers 2017-08-06 13:33:17

    My new business is officially launched now! The response to it in the industry has been very positive.

    Honestly, it's a crazy amount of work, but it's also really satisfying.

    The first product releases are a challenge. They were on such a tight time frame, and I'm working with people I've never worked with before. But all I can do is do my best. 🙂 I've drawn up a marketing plan, and I'm meeting with people next week to take about implementing it.

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  • BeingBryn
    BeingBryn Doing 2 cheers 2017-03-05 13:07:52

    Guys, I backed out of the class.

    Well, the place looked very hard core karate and krav mega, which made me nervous... according to my doctors, I'm not actually supposed to do martial arts because of the one kidney. Mr. Donovan was very worried about it.

    And he drove me there (it was in Lawrence, 45 min. away from us) and would have to drop me off and pick me up, and that didn't seem like so much fun for him since he was not feeling that great? So I decided to spend time with him instead.

    I will get this one done! But I think next time I'll talk to the instructor beforehand to make sure I feel comfortable.

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  • BeingBryn
    BeingBryn Doing 2 cheers 2017-02-25 21:59:30

    I'm hoping to go to a class next Saturday!!

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