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  • JoieDeVivre
    JoieDeVivre Doing 1 cheers 2017-10-11 17:25:00

    Date scheduled with MM for Saturday afternoon! Woo-hoo!

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    JoieDeVivre Doing 0 cheers 2017-10-03 22:49:52

    3rd date with MM, which, unbeknownst to me, is apparently the crucial one, went well. I got a chance to see his tattoo. Not sure when we're getting together next - this coming weekend is a big one for him professionally, so after that, probably.

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  • JoieDeVivre
    JoieDeVivre Doing 3 cheers 2017-09-29 18:44:39

    Second date with MM was last week - we went to a drag show together.

    I realize that I have this mini-review of men going on right now, as I am in the process of general review of the year with the HHD.

    First, there's SG. Right after the divorce, we had an on-line sort of romantic relationship. He lives in another state. I simply needed flattering positive attention from a nice guy; I think he took it much more seriously than I did, and I guess I sort of led him on. We got over this, and we're still friends. He's in town, and sleeping on my futon in my living room for a couple of days.

    Second, JH, who is referenced below in a previous entry, as a former FwB no longer interested in providing me with B. I am meeting him post Yom-K for a dinner out. I respect him on many levels, but ultimately, he will never be anything more than a friend formerly with benefits.

    And then MM. Our third date is on Sunday. He's a good kisser. Looking forward to more. He's the best prospect yet.

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  • JoieDeVivre
    JoieDeVivre Doing 0 cheers 2017-09-15 23:07:54

    I have a date with bad crush guy, MM, scheduled for Saturday night, stuffed before S'lichot. I still have a bad crush. There are videos of him giving speeches on You Tube. I've seen them.

    I also had a date with a different guy off of OKC, he was nice enough, but poly. Poly is just not for me.

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  • JoieDeVivre
    JoieDeVivre Doing 0 cheers 2017-09-06 21:38:45

    A guy off of OKC, very high match %age, and I actually vaguely know him professionally. I always thought he was gay because he ran a LGBTQ rights organization. Now, internet-stalking him, I find he is described as a "straight ally".

    I have a bad crush.

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  • JoieDeVivre
    JoieDeVivre Doing 2 cheers 2017-08-17 00:04:53

    Meeting someone off of Tinder this evening. hmphf

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    JoieDeVivre Doing 0 cheers 2017-08-07 22:29:53

    Went to the show at ToJ...alone. Sat next to a woman who was also taking herself out on a date. Her name was Kate. She was pretty cool.

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  • JoieDeVivre
    JoieDeVivre Doing 2 cheers 2017-07-20 22:19:50

    OK, and I just got an invitation to a dinner in a vineyard in Oregon. You can imagine a fabulous gourmet dinner paired with fabulous Oregon Pinots. If I had a boyfriend, I would go with him. I would even pay for his dinner, if he were indigent. I don't want to go alone. But wouldn't this be a romantic weekend? With who? With who? :```-(

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  • JoieDeVivre
    JoieDeVivre Doing 5 cheers 2017-07-20 18:04:35

    Maybe I should try match.com. Last time I was there, it was people who go golfing or boating at Lake Chelan. Ie, normies. But two people I know are now engaged to be married from match.com, so maybe I should try it again. OKC - nothing to see there.

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    • spatz
      spatz 0 cheers 2017-07-22 06:52:06

      @JoieDeVivre Might be worth a try. Do they charge to try it out?

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    • aenea
      aenea 0 cheers 2017-07-26 04:28:56

      @JoieDeVivre i think you should try it. maybe invite a promising and spontaneous contender to a first date at an oregon vineyard.

      One word of caution though - I had an account there for awhile that I abandoned. I went back to it a few years later to delete it only to find that it had been hacked and it was being used by someone posing to be an older gentleman with my same interests - so 'he' changed basically nothing but the name, age, and sex on the profile and was scamming at least half a dozen women using the account. I notified all the women he had a message history with and contacted Match. It took them forever to close the account. I was in a password war with the guy for a good hour at least before they finally disabled it. Crazy stuff. Just be careful.

      not sure what it says about me that an older man could pass as believable with my interests, but i digress...

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