lose my virginity

losing it is easy.

waiting until it will really mean something is the key.

it means alot, so make it mean alot. that’s my advice.

don’t let anyone slight your by making it something less than it could be.

when you think you’re ready.. tack on some extra time. anticipation only helps if it’s right, or shows that it’s wrong. lol…

:)

It was worth doing. I guess it has to happen at some time right. Wait for the right person and dont stress about it. I was really happy with how mine happened and a year and a half on im still with my fella.

Seriously, why do I even have this goal up? If I can’t get a boyfriend yet, why do I feel that it’s going to automatically change and guys will fall for me like I’m some goddess? It’s not like I want sex, but I do want to at least do this sometime in my life, because I’m sure it’s amazing with someone you love – I wouldn’t know, haha, right? – And yeah… All of your posts are so awesome about how you got it done, and how “special” it was.

I want that.

Not right now, not at this age. But god, if I had a guy I was with…? I’d definitely want it if it was the right guy, and I was totally ready. I want it to be special. I’m not going to date a guy just for this, but I do hope that I can trust a guy with this. I want it to be like, stroking my cheek, dim-lit room, planned, his eyes on mine, and… God, I get just goose bumps thinking about it. I can’t wait, honestly. But I have to. There’s no one in my life that could do this, and it’s a shame because I hear it’s amazing.

Sometimes I portray it in my stories I write as an “Eden.” A place where two souls become one. I know, I know; I’ve never done it and I know a lot about it. I guess I’m deep like that.

Please, God, let me have this someday when I’m totally ready. :(

Wait for the right person, use protection. That’s what I did and it was great. And still is!

Well, yeah…

Go me!

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Hmm I have a boyfriend of 2 weeks, so maybe soon?

there’s a time and a place :) Now im on the lookout for the right person.

I lost my virginity at the age of 16 (now I am 23). I was so curious, and so it just happens. It was OK for me at that time. But now my opinion about all that sex-stuff has changed. Sex can make you feel good, but not for a long time, if it happens only with your body and not your soul. And we should never forget the responsibility, that we have, when we start with sex.

Love,
Aleria